Relationship help!? :(?

Well, if he wanted to be with YOU he would be. You need to just be friends with him, nothing more. If they do break up and he wants to date it's not a good idea. If he doesn't want you now, he doesn't DESERVE you later. You deserve better, you'll find someone else. It's just a matter of time, not all guys will hurt you. You just have to wait to find that one that wouldn't, and then you'll see why it didn't work with the other guys.