Women....how do u feel about men with abs?

I jus answered a question about what it feels like when a woman touches abs - I answered when i had abs 15 yrs ago women would touch em and grunt ....sigh those were the days.....my stomach is more round these days and I hate it yet a few female friends say abs are over rated - Aurelia noticed that I lost a lil of my stomach and said she ddnt like it so what do all the ladies here say?