What should I do, <3 or </3?

Ok, There is a guy that I've had a crush on for 2 years and now I finally got him 2 notice me. Since I've like this guy for a while of course I would wanna try and get 2 know him. We text basically everyday ( He always text me first ). He did visit me once but I ddnt sleep with him just kissed and I dnt plan on 2 anytime soon. We even wanna attend the same college. I always do wanna see him again but thats cause I think he is cool. I asked him if he was tryna rush into sex he says " Yea, I mean its not like we're talking" ( Meaning tryna get 2 know each other 4 a relationship) I flipped and he said " Well its not my fault ur catching feelings" I am famous for not caring about guys feelings and being a tease. So I could totally ignore him and not care how he feels at all.But I wanted this 2 be different.But 2 years and he only see"s me as a sex symbol like normal guys. Cause I have boobs of a white girl and booty that a black girl should have ( Im caramel by the way ( black)). So the question is... Do I lead him on then crush him like I normally would or still try 2 make it work show him I am relationship material ?